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40-year-old Cahit is brought to German psychiatric clinic after attempting suicide and sets out to start a new life, even as he longs for drugs and alcohol to numb his pain. Sibel is young, pretty and, like Cahit, Turkish-German. She lives a lifestyle that is a bit too wild for her devout, conservative Muslim family and fakes a suicide attempt to try and escape them. But the incident brings shame upon her family, who insist that only marriage can save her. Sibel begs Cahit to marry her and he reluctantly agrees, perhaps in an effort to save her and to find meaning in his own life. Initially the two share an apartment and little else as Sibel sees other men and Cahit continues to have flings with his on-again, off-again girlfriend. Gradually, however, Cahit begins to fall in love with Sibel and she, in turn, comes to realize that she loves him - but not before an incident of jealous violence tests this fledgling romance. When Cahit is sent to jail and Sibel flees to Turkey, her heart, mind and soul remain with him - but for how long? (Antidote Films)

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Isherwood 

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English With just a cursory knowledge of the cultural conditions in Muslim countries, every viewer can quickly piece together what young Sibel is fighting for at the beginning of the film and why she resorts to unconventional means to achieve her goals. The ensuing plot carousel, on which not only the main driver of the uneven marriage hinges but also a considerable portion of well-disguised narrative values, revolves at a subtly moderate pace, allowing director Faith Akin to provide ample space to express everything he has in mind to the audience. In the dimly lit atmosphere (most scenes taking place at night), there are indeed some pleasantly romantic moments with a touch of humor (like carrying the bride over the threshold), but they are quickly overshadowed by more ominous scenes that ultimately serve as a warning against clinging to outdated traditional family values. The fact that they drink beer, snort drugs, and cover it all with a "merciful" fog of cigarette smoke is beside the point. The performances of the actors propel the film forward with sheer force, and they boldly engage in everything, starting with sex and ending with a strong dose of emotions and blood splattering. The only flaw remaining is the somewhat kitschy-looking band playing on the shores of the Sea of Marmara. Indeed, understanding the mindset of a Muslim might require a deeper insight and perspective. ()

kaylin 

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English A very unpleasant picture about how it is also possible to live and surprisingly continue living in it. However, I would probably see the problem precisely in that unpleasantness, because I don't really see anything on those characters that would make me want to watch them. I don't want to look at them. But maybe even that is an element connected with a good film. ()